Not everyone can be happy, live in harmony with himself, if the wind is in his pocket. We live in the world with their own laws in which finance is playing not a latter role. And you need to take into account.
Harvard psychologists concluded that money is able to give a feeling of happiness only when they contribute to the possibility of breaking out of poverty. Permanent savings, thoughts on where to take a dozen to salary, a little interfere with a positive look at this world. But at the same time, once starting to earn money, it is almost impossible to stop. First you are looking for money on an excessive pair of slippers, then on a trip to Turkey, then to a new car, then ... then ... then ...
Then the moment occurs when the acquisition of new expensive things becomes ordinary, habit, and does not bring any inspiration - the feeling of happiness disappears without a trace. At the same time, illusions arise that large amounts, big money will help to return this feeling. So we are arranged that we never satisfy what we have. But it is thanks to this character of the character of a person, our ancestors came out of the caves, built a locomotive, flew into space. The desire for a better life is one of the survival programs that are laid in us at the genetic level. But sometimes it is worth looking back - maybe you should just stop, and start, finally, enjoy life?
Get ready for wealth
There is nothing galloping in that you have money. However, there are such situations such when, having a lot of money, you still feel uncertain and depressed. Moreover, some of the features of such a secured position may come for you an unpleasant surprise.
Psychologists argue that increasing income is usually accompanied by an increase in costs. In addition, the responsibility increases significantly and spending - you will constantly worry about how you save earned money to ensure the existence of children and grandchildren in order to increase your condition.
The more you receive money, the higher the requirements will be to you from your employer, the more duties you have ... and the less time you will pay your family. You can come to the conclusion that big stresses bring big money. Are you ready for daily tests, to constant pressure, to constant doubts?
By the way, the vital model that our parents handed them a major role in our opinion about material intake. Attitude towards money is formed in the consciousness of each person in childhood, under the age of 5 years. If your family was treated for money, as something shameful, if the money in the family constantly lacked, then even when you grow up and you will earn a lot of money, you still will feel extremely uncomfortable. You will constantly pursue the fears to lose everything and come back again in this poor life. But if in childhood you have adopted the model of abundance from your parents, then in the future you will not be afraid of any material difficulties, knowing that any trouble can be solved. You will be able to enjoy what you have now.
Scientists have proven that happy people have certain skills that enjoy life in any manifestations. What kind of skills? First of all, life optimism. In any event, even the most unpleasant, the ability to see positive parties and not notice any drawbacks, negative, is always very important. Are you fired from work? So it's great - just a long time I wanted to get a new job, where my talents would be fully appreciated. By the way, those who work on their beloved, interesting work are much more likely to feel the feeling of happiness.
"I want a fur coat like a friend!"
If you want to live in prosperity, then, first of all, it is worth asking yourself: "And why do I need to have a lot of money?". The value of money is more determined by the spiritual comfort that you get if you have a certain amount. Many people strive to simply be, as everyone, strive to keep up with their colleagues, friends, relatives, and so on. We have a property to compare our wealth with the prosperity of others. At the same time, we do not take as an example of Bill Gates, and prefer to strive for the level of close, more prosperous relatives or friends.
Think about. Think about what you need a more expensive and stylish mobile phone than your girlfriend? Maybe you just envy her, maybe you have any complexes? If you answered the above questions about the above, you can be sure that this purchase will not bring you any satisfaction.
Council. If you understand that envy the material position of your girlfriend, then you should find five pleasant moments in your life. For example, does she drive on an expensive car? But you have a great figure, because you walk on foot. In addition, you do not have to lose time and nerves in traffic jams, communicate with traffic cops and so on. Methodically performing this exercise, you can gradually get rid of envy. But in the event that you understand that the car is just needed, then you need to do everything to get it - earn money, take money, take a loan and so on.
Money as payment method
"I am not married, but I still stand something, and I will prove it!". Failures in privacy for many women become the factor that puts wealth and career above the family or friendship. So, a person who does not have close friends tries to focus on his career.
Think about. Are many pieces of paper in your wallet are able to replace attention, care, love, friendship. Think about the fact that you have not seen your parents for a very long time, you do not have children, men, too, and with friends communicate once a few months. Maybe you need to take a fresh look at the world and put other priorities?
Council.There are many people who do not have what you have. Try to do charity - help the orphanage or shelter for homeless animals. You should not be limited to financial assistance, you can become a volunteer. Create a new tradition - Saturday sitting on which you invite your friends and see new interesting films, communicate.
"I will definitely be happy ... But then"
Which of us are not familiar with such thoughts: "I'll buy a country house, a new car, a bank account in a bank, then I will hold a full life." In this case, we can talk about the substitution of concepts - you simply prohibit yourself to be happy until that time is not achieving the implementation of your plan. And before that you are forced only to work, work, work. And it just does not have time for ordinary human joy. But psychologists, for example, suggest that if a person has 5 good friends, he considers himself and a happy man.
Think about.Maybe you just do not know how to enjoy what you have now? Yes, your apartment renovations admire all your girlfriends, but in order to make this repairs you have been denied for several months in small pleasures, have not been on vacation for a long time. Such an attitude of life can end that you will simply have to enjoy life, cease to feel like a living person.
Council. You need to learn to be happy now and here. Do not deny yourself in small joys. You can paint your monthly budget - some part will go to repay loans, accounts, some kind of products, the necessary acquisitions. And do not forget some part to leave on entertainment, small joy.
We achieve harmony without money
Do not hurry to change your life in pursuit of big money. Sometimes, if we are offered a big salary, we disappeared in someone else's city without thinking, agree to work without weekends and holidays. However, it is worth thinking very well before agreeing to or refuse such a tempting offer.
List In the head, everything you already have at the moment, and you will understand what it is not so little. You have a faithful husband, your favorite son, the best friend, and at work there are also prospects. Speak constantly about what you are happy and you will definitely feel it in reality.
Think up About what you lose for the opportunity to be considered a rich man. If a tight working schedule leaves you time to communicate with your children, with your family, with friends, then surely it is too high that you pay for your welfare.
Set limits. Welfare race cannot continue without end. You need to be able to stop in time. Determine your limit - what amount on the bank account, which level of salary you should have so that you can calm down and relax.
Engage Only a pleasant thing for you. No matter how high the salary in the unloved work, you will not be able to get real satisfaction from such work. If you are still forced to engage in unloved work, it is worth finding at least some positive moments that are not related to money - the significance of labor, a good friendly team, and so on.
What do you think wealth starts and success? If you think that wealth begins with money, then you are wrong. You can say that you have no money and therefore you are poor, but it is not. You are poor because you think that you think that you are poor, so you have no money. Pay attention to the previous offer, money is just a consequence of your attitude towards yourself and to your life. A very simple question that is very many can put in an awkward position, how do you think you are worthy to be rich, happy, successful and healthy? What do you think you can become rich successful and happy? What are you talking about yourself?
Let's do a simple exercise that will help you to open up for the prosperity of wealth and success. Imagine that you are a wizard and that you can fulfill any my own desire, absolutely any, there are no boundaries, you can absolutely everything. Just imagine you to feel at this moment if you found out that you can fulfill any my own desire. Feel this delight and joy, your desire will come true! Allow yourself to feel this power, rejoice, remember these feelings. If you have no interference, doubt, then there is nothing terrible in it, you just need to understand one simple moment, then you will succeed.
First you need to take wealth and prosperity on a mental and sensual level before it goes into your life on the material level. This is the whole mystery, the whole secret. Why does a person can not become rich and successful? Because somewhere deep in my subconscious, he does not allow himself to be rich and successful, he thinks that he is not worthy of wealth or that wealth is bad. You may not even know about it, these installations operate at an unconscious level. And you are not to blame for this, you just inspired that you are poor, unhappy, loser, etc. In childhood, all convictions and installations are very well fixed in the subconscious and begin to live their lives.
Just understand, it's like a vicious circle, the victims raise victims, without even suspecting it. You just need to realize this moment, you can change everything, in your hands the most powerful weapon throughout the world is your consciousness. And consciousness can be compared with the soil, what do you sit there, then it will germinate, understand? You will have to radically change your life and first of all it concerns a mental and sensual plan, as this is the basis, then the material things are germinate. You need to realize the importance of this point, but you should not exercise stick. Now your life only depends on you, you are an artist, you are a screenwriter, director, you are the main character, etc., all of you.
Realize very well what you read here, now you need to simply determine what you want from life and begin to embody the conceived. Need a clear goal, as wealth and money should grow from something from some kind of business that you will be engaged. Choose what you like, any lesson you like, do not limit yourself in anything, choose what you like. Start with thoughts and feelings, think about what you want and who you want to become and feel like it is already in your life. If you want to buy Laferrari Ferrari for 100,000,000 million, then imagine how you get behind the wheel of this car, feel this moment, feel all the joy and delight from the fact that you can own this car.
Thoughts that are supported by feelings a very strong weapon in achieving goals. Think of good, program yourself for success, hang at home poster depicting your goal to constantly remember your goal and feel the joy of thought that it will come true. Expect goodness from life, believe in your strength and opportunities, inspire yourself that you can all, you can fulfill our desire, you have absolutely everything to fulfill your dreams, you just need to use this powerful tool. Constantly develop, learn and act, read positive and creative books, on the similarity - think and rich, books Louise Hay, Randy Gage, etc. Everything in your hands, one day you inspired that you are poor, unhappy and sick, now your task is to inspire that you are rich, healthy, happy and successful! And that you can all! Successes to you and prosperity!
First of all, you need to learn positive and correctly think. Michelle Monten wrote " A person suffers from not so much from what is happening, how much of how he appreciates, what is happening, and the evaluation of what is happening entirely depends on the person "This phrase enclosed great wisdom, think on it at leisure.
I only add that, for example, there are blind people, people with disabilities, without hands, without legs, if you have everything in order with it, then you can already partially be happy. Learn to think positively.
Love and halves requirements
An important point for any girl. It is difficult to find my halves, but as you have shown, you do not need to look for, it will come, and "there is no one" itself "if you are still alone, then it does not come time.
The main thing is to be sure that it will be found and again need to reduce the bar of the requirements for your Prince.
Work and career
Believe work on uncle is the road to nowhere. For example, I have a familiar girl, worked as the head of the department in a large IT company, the crisis came and dismissed it and for 3 months she could not find a job and this with her experience.
You need to work on yourself and only on yourself, the sooner you will understand this, the better for you. Below I will write about it in more detail.
Education
University-s Shmus is all crap. This is 5 years of reflected time. Even if you decide to work for uncle, practical knowledge is important.
The employer now does not care about your crusts, your real knowledge is important to them, and that you can, know how.
Read, self-improvement, but comprehend only useful knowledgewhich you can apply in practice. And in the university, you give you an unnecessary, obsolete knowledge.
Own business
As I wrote above work only on myself. If you can make your favorite business business, then this is the best option. And if they can gradually expand it, then be sure to achieve success, material well-being.
But for this you need to work, work and work again. Grandfather Lenin bequeathed, learn, learning and studying again, he is partly right, but it is more important to work, only working, making mistakes, stumbling about them, you will learn practical knowledge and invaluable experience will appear.
And remember " God helps workaholics "This is my phrase. A person who works a lot, God helps, in one way or another.
for example, I sent a man who helped me very much in my business and in the way to success. It was just so, for free, but those knowledge that he gave, cost huge money.
What is the difference in a smart girl from stupid
The same thing is the difference of a smart man from a stupid man. A smart woman works for himself and does other people work on it. And stupid, working on uncle making it rich. Think about it.
Family, Children and Meaning of Life
I think I will not be mistaken if I write that any girl wants to be a beloved, healthy, rich, successful at least for the majority this is the formula of happiness.
I will only add that if the girl has a loving husband, children whom she will raise real people this is also happiness.
Throughout my life I was looking for the meaning of life, I didn't find it completely, but I realized that one of the options worthy of options, is to give birth to children and raise real people from them, people with a capital letter, to make them happy, successful, kind.
Money and freedom
Many believe that happiness in money. Partly they are right, for you can buy everything, almost everything. More precisely, it's all individually.
for exampleFor me, freedom and internal harmony is much more important than money. In other way, we are not about me, but for the majority, and for most women, the formula of happiness is such a lot of money + true love. " I have already written about love above, but about the money, more precisely about business I will write a few words.
And again about business
There is such a wise phrase - " walkway goes away. Praphrasing her, I can say and that " happiness will find seeking »But the one who is looking for a truly diligent, without downtrend. And not 5 minutes I went and forgot.
I'm what. What you need to look for, find your own, start and make this business ideal, more precisely seeks to this and then you will succeed. A to make it perfect we must love your business.
If short, then find your favorite business and make a business and half you will be happy. Your business should bring not only money to you, but also the benefit to people, and even better if he will make them a little happy.
Conclusion
Diligence, hard work, strong desire, efforts to be happy, sooner or later you will do happy. If after time you did not become happy, it means, on the way, fortunately you somewhere schollurili or I was looking for badly and sought to him.
And remember life is a struggle, the struggle for happiness, freedom, love, money, health and achieves only the most targeted!
Have you ever wanted anything but misconduct, with all the passion, without experiencing negative, sincerely and violently? I had such cases, and they led to one: I got the desired, and it made me happy. From frank trifles to a personal moto and a successful career. Moreover, they took place suddenly, unexpectedly, and then I could not understand why this happens, but it was damn nice. Now I know why, and you will learn too. This post will turn upside down and your life if you allow yourself to be happy and every time getting what you want. Everything is much easier than you think.
It will be about the world-famous author of many books on how to become rich, healthy, successful, how to teach convincing the word. He used to be an unfortunate homeless, who did not have a penny for the soul, and life seemed to him something terrible. Today he is a person who earns millions of dollars, a successful author of books, a famous marketer guru and. This person has everything you can dream of: a luxurious house, expensive cars, excellent health. It is amazing, but all this can be with you, my readers. He reveals the main secret of the Universe, the secret of attraction of good luck, money, love and everything you can dream about. It is incredible, but it works, and I have repeatedly checked his technique for yourself.
How it works
Think about what emotions your life is. Are you unhappy with yourself? Not good enough? Is something breaking constantly, falls out of the hands and it annoys? People do not understand you and do not like? The salary fell below the plinth, and the bosses require more and more? And maybe you are confident in yourself and shine every day, doing your favorite thing, you want to create and the earth burns under the legs?
Think about what your life consists of: From negativity or positive? In the first case, you will certainly attract failure, in the second - you must be lucky. The author of the book, which I suggest you download absolutely free, offers you to dig in your own past, in myself to find the cause of failures. After all, everything that happens to us - there is something we think and what we feel.
I read this book from the crust to the crust, and every time I return to her, it becomes easier for me, it is so easier for me that I want to fly on the wings. This man is a brilliant psychologist who in his book training helps people understand their pains, sadness, hatred and let them go and forever from their lives ... In general, you get rid of all of that negative, which does not give you forward. This is the first step towards absolute happiness, wealth, health. Remember: there is nothing impossible (make sure that by reading the short one). If you tell yourself "no, this thing I can not afford," you simply go out your dream in the grave.
I do not write this post for advertising, just from the pure heart I am grateful to this person and his ideas that helped me find love, buy a motorcycle (still a student, I was able to accumulate the necessary amount after a year of work on the Internet), to become a successful freelancer Wheel without warders.
My story
It was a very interesting story. I dreamed of riding on my own 2-wheel transport, very long time. But I could not decide what kind of product I want to buy myself. And simply did not believe that I could afford it.
But then, although I had a little money, I started looking for something cheaper on the Internet and came across a very interesting bike, which, however, it was too expensive at that time. But I caught fire so much that I continued to search. And so, just a week later, my favorite person called me and said that in our city (a very small town, in which a similar device simply could not appear) the motorcycle of the same brand, the model and the volume I was looking for on the Internet.
The seller drove him from Germany 2 years ago, and he was not exploited. Just a person really needed money and sold he 2-wheeled for half a power. But then I lacked money. They asked to wait a month and left the deposit, although I had no idea where they were so much to take in 30 days. After 2 weeks, my customer appeared, ready to pay for my long ago made for her order (to be honest, then I have already started doubting and thought that I was trying to throw me) and the missing amount was fed by itself. After a couple of days we bought it.
Prehistory. Even earlier, before I read the book, I watched a documentary in which the author of this book was participating. There was a story that our desires would be brought to life if we imagine that they had already accomplished, and in all details: imagine their feelings, sound, smell, sound, in general, recreate reality in your head. Plus you need something that would be resting constantly about our dream. I have such a reminder with a picture of a girl sitting on a bike. I presented that I was, and stuck my photo to the postcard. SurprisingBut in a year I got my own motorcycle.
The book is read on easy, it also outlines amazing examples of how quickly people got the desired, just mentally attracting it. You will not notice how to read it.
Someone from readers has already acquired a new car, which he dreamed of, someone began to make a lot of making a lot on what he loved, someone was healed from cancer ... You do not need to rolling the days to get the desired! You only need to knowmystery of attraction of happinesswhich is simple to disgrace.
How to become happy
Just read the books of Vadim Zelanda - and they will help to find happiness and hope, will call the wish to move the mountains.
This book, in fact, first of all taught to be happy. Being happy, it means becoming richer. Richer not only spiritually, but also materially. The main principle is to give.Share to become richer. This thought is old as the world, but for some reason, very often forget about it. Below is one of the most powerful principles of all time. You could hear it from other people, but hardly seriously thought about it. Few of us armed this principle in real life. We can agree with this, but something constantly stops us: "I myself lacks for existence," "I need to earn a little more," "I should postpone for an emergency case," "I will feel protected with this amount " Be honest with you, the perfect moment for donation will never come. Always something will be disturbed, and your good intentions without actions are worth nothing.
Almost everyone keeps for the old dogmas of thinking: "You need to collect, and not to give, you need to save, and not sacrifice." But psychologists, and economists have long noticed that in order to get more, a person must learn to give. Yes, this really needs to learn, it's not so easy.
Many modern people claim that they give part of their income on charity. How does this happen? They have shares in companies that spend some profits, helping others. But it's not right. You must sacrifice yourself from your pocket. Others say they can not afford to donate money, so they help, providing services. Yes, it's good, but this is not what we are talking about. If you want to become richer, getting money, you should also donate money. There are people who claim that they would love to sacrifice if they knew where to do it. This is also not sincerely. After all, it is not necessary to participate in charitable foundations to help people, donate a simple street in need. Some people are worried that they will do with their money. Are they talking right? This is no longer your money and not your care. You let them go and become richer, you are not obliged to control the money that gave.
Giving money to help others, you make yourself cleaner, free and stronger. This does not mean that you mindlessly should part with the means of existence. You must stop cling. Money loves ease, the easier you let them go, the easier they are returned to you.
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