Blood in the feces is a serious call about the occurrence of a possible pathological process in the intestine. Traces of blood can appear with hemorrhoidal inflammation, trauma to the anal epidermis (fissures), polyposis, endometriosis, cancer and other serious diseases.
The blood that appears in the feces is not the only symptom that speaks of a serious pathology. Each disease has a number of other additional features. To determine the cause of a pathological phenomenon, it is necessary to diagnose the state of the intestine at a proctologist to obtain an effective therapy regimen.
Bloody defecation
Blood in feces in humans is a wake-up call, signaling urgent medical attention. Even in the absence of a deteriorated condition, the person is in danger.
Brightly scarlet red blood can be a symptom of intestinal damage or organ capillaries. To identify the cause of the pathological phenomenon, it is necessary to be examined by a proctologist. In order to make an accurate diagnosis, the specialist prescribes a blood test, perhaps there is latent blood in the feces of an adult patient in the material, the reasons for detecting plasma are determined after a full examination.
When to see a doctor
Profile specialist Sometimes going to the toilet for a large, it seems to a person that he has blood in his feces, since the feces are red. If the changes have occurred for the first time, and there are no additional symptoms, it is necessary to analyze which foods were consumed. For example, tomatoes, currants, beets can color the stool red.
Feces can be black after activated charcoal or animal bile. Usually, such changes take place on their own and do not require medical attention. But if on an ongoing basis, and at the same time, a person feels a deterioration in his health, medical assistance is needed.
Sometimes the plasma impurity cannot be seen due to the small amount in the feces. For this, proctologists are prescribed to pass a special analysis for the presence of plasma in the feces. Based on the results of analyzes and diagnostic studies, the cause of the pathology is identified and an individual therapy regimen is prescribed.
Feces in the blood cause
When blood is observed in the feces, this is a harbinger of severe pathology, and sometimes a serious illness requiring surgical care. Blood in the stool can be traced after alcohol. Scarlet traces are observed due to pathological processes in the gastrointestinal tract or with inflammation in the hemorrhoidal cones.
The causes of dark blood in the stool lie in diseases of the upper intestinal tract. Black plasma in feces warns of its long stay in the large intestine (biological composition changes). Occult blood can be detected only after passing a special test.
Here are the main factors in the occurrence of bloody marks in the feces:
Blood in the stool can cause a fissure in the anorectal region. The blood in the feces is bright red. Cracks are formed due to excessive straining and tight stools during oozing. Anal trauma is accompanied by discomfort after bowel movements. Fissure blood loss is insignificant with a duration of several days.
Cracks are diagnosed by proctological visual examination, by rectal examination with a finger. For medicinal purposes, dietary nutrition, taking weakening medications, the use of sea buckthorn candles or Anusol is recommended. The duration of therapy is 7-14 days.
When constipation is frequent and blood in the stool is observed 2-3 times a month, then perhaps the matter is not in cracks from constipation, but in hemorrhoidal inflammation. Additional symptoms may include itching with burning, a feeling of swelling of the anus.
Rectal varicose veins are caused by the absence of valves in the veins; with increased intra-abdominal pressure, the veins enlarge and deform, if the blood is damaged.
Hemorrhoids
This is the cause of hemorrhoids. Plasma discharge of a dark shade with aching and itching symptoms is observed. Patients feel a feeling of fullness.
The factors provoking the occurrence of hemorrhoidal inflammation are:
Hemorrhoid pain - excessive pressure inside the peritoneum;
- pregnancy;
- improper nutrition;
- passive lifestyle;
- hard physical labor.
Against the background of the disease, blood vessels are damaged, blood loss begins. External hemorrhoids are diagnosed by visual examination of the anorectal region. Internal hemorrhoidal inflammation requires more advanced studies (rectal examination with a finger, a colonoscope, a sigmoidoscope).
Hemorrhoids are treated with conservative and surgical methods. Drug treatment is provided at the initial stage of the formation of hemorrhoidal cones.
For this, proctologists prescribe the use of venotonics (Detralex, Trksevazin, Venarus, Troxerutin, Venolan, Ginkor Forte, Venoturon). In the form of drops, Escuzan can be prescribed. Of ointments and gels, Venitan, Troxevasin, Antistax are recommended. Hepothrombin g and Ethoxysclerol are considered to be venotonic agents. In combination with targeted medications, NSAIDs are recommended, laxative medications, folk remedies. Pain and blood with hemorrhoidal inflammation must be treated comprehensively.
Intestinal polyps
Blood on the stool warns of intestinal polyposis (intestinal polyps). A polyp can be single or plural. Traces of plasma in feces with polyposis depends on where the polyp is located, its size. If the neoplasm is injured, blood may come out during emptying. Plasma comes out mixed with feces. On feces, it looks like burgundy streaks.
It is necessary to diagnose the disease and eliminate polyps. Often, blood in the feces is observed with dysbiosis.
Oncology
Mucus with blood is often observed during the formation of the oncological process. From additional symptoms, there is a false desire to visit the toilet, sometimes in vain, diarrhea alternates with constipation, a rumbling is heard in the intestines. Patients complain of feces in the form of ribbons with a bloody impurity, in severe cases, intestinal obstruction is added. Scarlet blood is observed in feces not only in intestinal oncology, but also in prostatic pathology.
Acute intestinal infection
Mucus in the stool with a blood impurity is observed in acute intestinal infections:
These infections cause intestinal damage to the small and large intestine. Additionally, the patients have a fever, frequent diarrhea with purulent-mucous-blood traces occurs.
Among intestinal infections, Crimean, Omsk, and Central Asian fevers are also dangerous. These viruses infect the vascular system with the manifestation of a hemorrhagic rash, blood loss, not excluding intestinal. Cytomegalovirus is a serious infectious pathology of the large intestine, which is manifested by diarrhea, pain in the abdomen, and a febrile condition. Also, there is blood in the liquid stool in an adult.
Crohn's disease
Crohn's disease Blood on paper is seen in acquired or inherited Crohn's disease. The disease occurs against the background of immune processes. Pathology negatively affects the entire digestive system. Crohn's disease is triggered by food allergies, measles, stress, nicotine addiction.
Crohn's syndrome is most commonly found in the colon region of the small intestine. Additional symptoms are accompanied by frequent diarrhea, muco-gono-bloody traces in the stool, soreness in the abdomen and joints, a skin rash with fever, ulcers around the oral cavity and deteriorated vision.
Traces of blood in the examined feces, often speak of hereditary pathology. Therefore, therapy is prescribed on an individual basis.
Intestinal diverticulosis
The blood in the feces of a woman, a man, a child must be diagnosed, and if there are no plasma traces, but the condition worsens, it is necessary to examine the feces for latent plasma. Diverticulosis is an intestinal protrusion. In diverticulosis, the intestinal walls bulge out with saccular diverticula. The size of the formations does not exceed two centimeters. Most often, diverticulosis is diagnosed in elderly patients. Of the symptoms, streaks of blood in the liquid feces were noted.
Endometriosis
Intestinal endometriosis Bloody stools without pain require careful examination. Indeed, a serious pathology can be hidden behind a meager picture of symptoms. For example, extragenital endometriosis, which occurs in the rectum due to an overgrown endometrium. Pathology originates from female genital endometriosis. Initially, the growths are noted in the peritoneum, then go to the intestines.
This pathology is very rare in an independent process. If there is no endometriotic lesion in the genital organs, then the onset of the disease in the intestine occurs in the form of hematogenous proliferation of cells. With this pathology, patients observe streaks of dark blood in the feces.
Accurate diagnosis
At the doctor's appointment Blood clots that appear in the feces can be observed even with minimal blood loss after tooth extraction, with wounds and sores in the oral cavity, minor bleeding in the digestive tract. In such situations, traces of blood in the feces can be overlooked. To clarify the presence of plasma in feces, proctologists prescribe a special occult blood test. This study is called the Gregersen test.
This study helps to identify blood in the feces, the found cause of its occurrence is a signal for further research.
Stool analysis
Fecal occult blood testing reveals internal blood loss in the digestive tract. Before submitting the material, proctologists perform gastric and intestinal endoscopy. Preparation is required before taking the analysis. Three days before the study, the patient is not recommended to eat protein foods in the form of meat and fish. Also, you can not brush your teeth and take iron supplements.
In the laboratory, the material is treated with an acetic reagent to analyze the color change. If the solution turns cyanotic or greenish, the latent plasma test is considered positive.
If blood is found in feces in adult patients, they are diagnosed with:
Stool analysis - ulcerative lesion of the duodenum, stomach;
- damage to the mucous tissues of the rectal organ;
- ulcerative colitis;
- oncological processes;
- polyposis.
When feces come out with scarlet blood, proctologists recommend an analysis. Preparations for blood testing last a week. During this time, the patient adheres to the recommended diet and correct lifestyle. In addition to analyzes, proctologists carry out instrumental diagnostics of the rectal organ.
Rectoromanoscopy
Sigmoidoscopy is a mandatory procedure for detecting the condition of the rectal mucosa. Especially when it is necessary to detect the causes of the appearance of blood in the feces in men, women and children.
For patients predisposed to the formation of cancerous processes, such a procedure is recommended for annually. Rectromanoscopy is also necessary for people after 45 years. The rest of the patients are diagnosed as prescribed. The study is carried out using a rectoscope - a special device for visual examination of the anorectal region.
Sigmoidoscopy has a limitation in the length of the investigated area. The instrument allows you to examine only the lower sigmoid region and the rectum at a depth of up to 30 centimeters. If pathologies in the upper sections are suspected, the proctologist prescribes a colonoscopy. Especially if the patient says that he has dark blood in the liquid stool.
Before carrying out a diagnostic measure, preparatory manipulations are necessary about which the proctologist advises.
Colonoscopy
Diagnostics Colonoscope diagnosis is considered the most informative research method. The colonoscope device is longer than the rectoroscope, due to which it can penetrate into the upper part of the colon. The procedure is carried out with an anesthetic agent or an anesthetic drug. Before the examination, the patient must also prepare. Preparation consists in dietary nutrition and a clean intestine. To cleanse the organ, enemas or medications are recommended.
When conducting a colonoscopy, specialists accurately determine the reason for which there are sometimes reasons that require surgical treatment. The earlier the diagnosis is carried out, the faster the patient gets rid of the pathological symptom. Blood mucus in the feces is a serious symptom that requires immediate investigation and timely medical therapy. Colonoscopy allows you to examine the entire length of the intestine, including all of its sections.
Prevention of intestinal diseases
To exclude plasma traces in the feces, people must monitor their health. You need to eat right to eliminate constipation. Drink plenty of water a day (at least 2 liters). The diet should include foods high in fiber.
An active lifestyle is the key to health. You can't sit in front of the TV or computer for many hours, it is recommended to swim, run, dance, exercise, visit the gym (but not power equipment). Cal S. Therefore, proctologists recommend eliminating addiction to alcoholic beverages and smoking.
"Belgorodskaya Pravda" tells how at different times and for different reasons people attributed or reduced their years
Many people sin with age-related machinations. “They will ask - tell me that you are five years old,” teaches the mother of her first-grader son on the bus, saving on the ticket. "I'm already 18!" The teenager proves at the cigarette stall. “Uncle, let’s pass, we are students,” - high school students are trying to deceive the security guard of the club. And few people understand: a small deception gives rise to a big lie.
Marry and survive
When the Belgorod merchant and philanthropist Nikolay Chumichov passed off as a 40-year-old merchant of the 2nd guild Nikolai Slatin her oldest, 15-year-old daughter Alexandru, then he added a couple of years to her in the documents: and then, it turns out, unequal marriages had to be consistent with the law.
During the youth of our grandparents, people were driven by hunger, despair, patriotic feelings, and more often both together. For example, in the 1930s, workers were recruited for large construction sites. And young people, especially from collective farms, would throw themselves a year or two to enlist, earn money and somehow help their families.
The language does not dare to call the 15-year-old boys deceivers who, during the Great Patriotic War, attributed years to themselves, so that they were taken to the front.
There was something else. For the dead fathers, minors were awarded cash benefits. When the guys turned 16, the surcharges were removed. And mothers, in order to somehow survive, reduced their childhood years. So, in any case, Belgorod old-timers remember.
It also happened the other way around, when the age was raised under the preferences of the state.
"My father Vasily Pereverzev was born in May 1935. During the war he was left an orphan, lived with an aunt who had three of her children. Since 1943, 10-year-old children have been recruited to the country's Suvorov schools, orphans went on preferential terms. Aunt grabbed this chance - she wanted her father to go to the state allowance, learn, go public, and she would be relieved. Agreed in the village council, and my father added a year to the certificate, "- says Ivan Pereverzev.
But the boy did not pass the health competition - the selection at the school was serious. Later he learned to be a mechanic, worked and, due to the years he wasted, retired earlier than his biological age.
In general, the metrics of children of the war and post-war times are full of inaccuracies. Go figure it out today, deliberately or due to illiteracy they did and what they got.
Baba berry again
The Buryats have a proverb that a toad in love will swim across the sea. A woman, for her love happiness, will change her appearance, lifestyle, country, not to mention her age. Of course, a smaller figure. The classics of literature made fun of the young ladies. One patient of Professor Preobrazhensky, in love with the card sharper Moritz, which is worth it. But every invented story, as you know, always has a real prototype.
“After the war, when men were running low, my aunt decided to increase her chances of marriage and reduced her date of birth by five years,” she says. Victor Ermakov... - In the 1950s, the collective farmers did not have passports. When my aunt turned 23, she took time off to study in the city. At the same time, she arranged everything so that the certificate from the village council indicated that she was 18 ”.
It helped, or fate favored, but the woman got married, and more than once. However, the final denouement came when the time for retirement came, and the "young" had to work an extra five years. You can't do anything: you have to pay for love, her relatives made fun of.
Eternal point
Today, of course, such a trick with documents will not work: a birth certificate, and then a passport, accompany a person all his life. And if your name can be changed repeatedly, then the line about the date of birth is immutable.
“An exception is the case if there is a mistake in the date of birth in the birth certificate and, accordingly, in the documents issued by the citizen. But this will have to be proved in court by providing testimony of witnesses, documents confirming the correct data. And only by a court decision will the registry office correct the date in the birth record so that a person can replace the passport later, "emphasizes the head of the registry office of the Belgorod region Tatiana Slyusarenko.
And do not try to correct the objectionable date in the documents with your own hand - this is a direct path to crime.
“Such actions on h. 1 tbsp. 327 of the Criminal Code of the Russian Federation qualify as forgery of documents, - clarifies the head of the investigation department of the Ministry of Internal Affairs of Russia in Belgorod Igor Motuzov... "Depending on the circumstances of the crime committed, it is punishable by restriction of freedom, forced labor or imprisonment for up to two years."
Uncles and children
Deliberate age changes have been seen in many sports. Sometimes it gets to the point of absurdity when 30-year-old men compete with 16-year-old youths. Most often, the wrong age is indicated in martial arts: wrestling, boxing and kickboxing. In 2012, a State Duma deputy and three-time Olympic champion in Greco-Roman wrestling Alexander Karelin he even canceled the tournament in Novosibirsk named in his honor because of this.
Violations occur on a massive scale in the most popular sport - football. Rumor has it that the Russian national team players Alan Dzagoev and Alexander Kokorin older than they appear. We cannot say anything about Dzagoev, but we know what caused doubts about the age of our fellow countryman. The fact is that young Kokorin was taken to tournaments with older teams. That is why his dates of birth - football and passport - are different.
Football players do this in order to attract the attention of major clubs with their victories and their play. Often this happens through the fault of the coaches, as their salary depends on the results. Here we are not even talking about the quality education of a football player.
“A few years ago, when teams brought older players to youth competitions - we call them coasters - this problem was widespread. Then we gathered the coaches of the children's and youth teams and told them to come to the competition with documents, and if they are not there, or we identify a rewritten footballer, or after the game they do not provide a suspected player, then we will act tough, '' says the president of the Belgorodskaya Football Federation areas Denis Shpilevcorrespondent Alexander Kulikov. - In case of violation, we will disqualify the coaches and inform the heads of sports schools and heads of districts about it. Now every coach understands that this can hit him as an employee - they can be deprived of bonuses, or even fired. And we publish all this on all our information resources so that everyone knows about it. Previously, there were dozens of such cases, now they are isolated. ”
You never really know anything about them. Well, in the best case, in general terms - where the person lives, who works ... You will learn about marital status, changes in status, going abroad by chance. If you find out at all. Such people can communicate with you for a long time, but at the same time tell almost nothing about themselves. What makes them do this?
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I have an acquaintance with whom we have been in relationship for ten years. However, mostly remotely. During this time, we discussed many topics, starting with politics and ending with literature, but information about the life of Victor himself has to be pulled literally with ticks. Only recently I found out that he lost his parents early, and personal life is a taboo ... I still don't know for sure whether he was married and with whom he lives now ... It is worth asking an "uncomfortable" question, how Victor turns off the conversation or translates him on a different topic, or even completely irritated, informs him that he "does not want to talk about it." At the same time, he knows everything about me - with whom I live, with whom I meet ...
Once I was told a story about a woman who hid from her friends that she was getting married. They found out about it after the fact and were very offended by her ...
However, not everyone is inclined to spread about the upcoming changes in marital status. I had a high school friend who was pretty close. In any case, we communicated more or less regularly. Once, a few years after leaving school, I called her and found out that she was married. And before that there were no hints that she was dating someone ... Some time passed - and she told me that she had given birth to a child. But we met during her pregnancy, and she did not say a word! I also learned about her divorce from strangers ...
Another friend also carefully concealed her personal life. Even when she began to live with a man and I, having heard a man's voice in the telephone receiver a couple of times, asked her: “Do you have any changes in your personal life?” She answered evasively. Although, it would seem, what's wrong with that - they live in a civil marriage ...
Another friend first dedicated everyone to the twists and turns of her relationship with men. As a result, she was already preparing for the wedding, when suddenly everything came to an abrupt end. It turned out that three weeks before the wedding there was a spat, Masha offered the groom to live separately, he went to his parents and ... did not return.
A few years later, Masha left for permanent residence abroad. Once on Skype, she said that a friend should come to her. I didn't even know that she met someone there. Then Maria reported in LiveJournal that they moved in. And another four months later - that they got married ... Masha told that she was expecting a child only three months before his birth. Note: we have been actively communicating with her on Skype all this time!
And yet, what is the reason for secrecy?
Most often, people hide the circumstances of their lives, because they do not want to be discussed. Not everyone is pleased when their bones are washed, albeit at a distance. In addition, a person who has information about you often has the opportunity to harm you, interfere with the implementation of your plans.
Many are also afraid to talk about their ideas for the future, "so as not to jinx it." For example, pregnancy is usually not talked about until half time. Information about the upcoming marriage is not always shared, since the wedding can easily be upset, as happened with my girlfriend. Not everyone talks about changes in their personal life, that they started dating someone.
It is not recommended to talk about plans related to work or business. Superstitious people are afraid that they will be envied or wished for harm and thus "bring damage." There are also those who consider the saying “Riddles are never rich” to be true.
Judging by myself: every time I imagined in all the details a new job, a project or a relationship with some man, a bummer awaited me ... level, and this option is "closed". Therefore, it is useful in a sense to live for today - in any case, not to relate to your plans too emotionally, not to “guess” for the future, but to adapt to the present situation.
However, there is another reason why people are secretive. They do not trust you, because they do not know how you will use the information received. One and the same person can be quite frank with some, and keep closed with others, even if they seem to be connected by friendship ... But more often such an individual does not open up with anyone. This is usually the behavior of those who have already burned themselves once, told someone all the "ins and outs" and got a bad result.
Is it worth taking offense at secretive people? It depends on what situations. If this is a friend who is afraid that you will "spoil" her personal happiness, that's one thing. But if you are dating a man and do not even know his last name (as was the case with one of my acquaintances) and he is silent, like a partisan, about his past and marital status, then this is already a reason to be wary. It is possible that he has something to hide. So feel free to ask questions. Goes away from the answer? Better look for another option!
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When communicating with different people, an observant person may notice that their gaze can change from direct and confident to hunted and hidden. The look can tell you what the opponent would like to hide. The psychology of gaze studies and systematizes the features of the direction of the eyes, the frequency and speed of blinking, the movement of facial wrinkles. These features betray the latent motives of the interlocutor, his desire to deceive, impose his opinion or complete indifference.
The function of the gaze: cultural and historical significance in society
The manner of looking is of great importance during communication. But people from different cultures have their own etiquette regarding the acceptability and appropriateness of direct eye contact. So, in the countries of Western Europe, it is customary to look for a long time and intently, expressing confidence and interest in the conversation. A similar tradition is common in Russia and other CIS countries.
Residents of the Far East regard the attempt to make eye contact as disrespectful and even a threat. This is especially pronounced in Japan: during a conversation, the Japanese specifically look to the side so as not to accidentally look at the interlocutor. Studying the culture of views, one should take into account national peculiarities, otherwise one can misjudge intentions, provoke a quarrel.
What does the size of the pupils say: what is the interlocutor hiding
During a conversation, the size of the pupils can change dramatically. This is due to the emotional attitude towards the interlocutor or the subject of the conversation. Dilated pupils are a sign of a strong emotional uplift: the partner looks at what he likes. This is how lovers look at the object of their passion or children look at the desired toy. Constricted pupils are a sign of detachment, emotional coldness.
When assessing the size of the pupils, it is important to consider external factors. So, in bright light, the pupils are greatly narrowed, and in semi-darkness they expand. The width of the pupils can be affected by certain diseases, for example, increased intracranial pressure
Gaze frequency and duration: how to understand signals
The duration of considering a partner within the framework of European culture has different meanings, depending on the nature of communication. The following types of views are distinguished:
- Social - medium duration, directed to the area of \u200b\u200bthe eyes or mouth.
- Business - direct, long-term, expresses the desire to reach an agreement.
- Intimate - intermittent in women, long in men. Used to attract the attention of an interested person.
A direct gaze directed at a partner from top to bottom is a threat signal, a warning of an attack. This is how dominant personalities look, striving to assert their position. In friendly and business communication, a defiant look should be avoided so as not to accidentally provoke aggression.
What does one or two eyes blink mean, the frequency and speed of blinking
Winking in business communication is unacceptable. This is an informal gesture that only people with informal relationships allow. A wink is a signal to the interlocutor that an agreement has been reached, encouragement, assurance of your support. In Asian culture, winking is a form of insult.
The frequency of blinking speaks about the character: frequent blinking betrays insecurity, a tendency to obey, rare blinking - self-confidence, arrogance. Before assessing the frequency of blinking, you should find out if the interlocutor has vision problems. With myopia, frequent blinking is an uncontrollable symptom that is important to consider.
Focus of gaze: what the interlocutor thinks about
The position of the eyes during a conversation betrays the intentions of the interlocutor, the degree of truthfulness. If the eyes are directed:
- up to the left - the partner recalls events that really happened;
- up to the right - an attempt to present the subject of the conversation, in reality it does not exist;
- to the side to the left - an attempt to remember the auditory information received earlier;
- to the side to the right - the interlocutor is lying, trying to come up with non-existent memories;
- down - the interlocutor is focused on thoughts, leads an internal monologue.
This characteristic is suitable for right-handers. When talking with left-handed people, you should evaluate the meaning of the direction in reverse.
How to decipher the manner of looking at an interlocutor during a business meeting and a date
During a business conversation, you should correctly evaluate the visual signals of the interlocutor. A long, direct gaze betrays an imperious nature, a desire to subdue the interlocutors. It can only be allowed by the boss in the direction of the subordinate. Downcast eyes (especially in combination with a tilted head) is a symbol of submission. Between equal partners, let’s exchange short, friendly glances that complement the communication.
During a romantic date, a man looks at a woman covertly: direct gazing is regarded as a threat. The male gaze is defiant, so it can only respond to a woman's attention, but not show interest directly. For romantic communication, a woman is the initiator. She can openly look at the man she likes, inviting him to meet. It is permissible for a woman to look directly and defiantly - this is not a threat, but an interest.
How to determine character traits by the manner of looking at the interlocutor
Studying the features of the psychological designation of the gaze, one should evaluate the direction and duration in a complex manner. Thanks to this, you can make an approximate psychological portrait of your partner, notice a lie in time.
A person with a strong leadership character is betrayed by looking from top to bottom: he evaluates the interlocutor, “presses” with his gaze. Often, high-ranking officials look at their subordinates with squint. They have a raised eyebrow and a wrinkled forehead. This facial expression speaks of ambition, disdain, hostility. When a leader wants to break the will of the interlocutor, he looks for an exaggerated long time, using the look as a means of psychological pressure.
Sly, adventurous people look straight, slightly lifting their chin. The gaze slides over the figure of the interlocutor without dwelling on the details. Such an interlocutor does not avoid a direct gaze, but does not look into the eyes, but at the point between the eyes.
Individuals who are focused on the inner world look over the interlocutor. The direction of the pupils changes chaotically - as if they do not know where to look. Often such avoidance of gaze is perceived as secrecy, but this is a manifestation of schizoid accentuation, a personality trait of the individual.
Looking at the interlocutor from the bottom up is a symbol of obedience and helpfulness. Running eyes - inner fear, a sense of threat, expectation of an attack. Sometimes lovers look like that, trying to hide their feelings.
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There are many ways to read not even a person's thoughts, but his thoughts, his deepest hopes and fears. The ability to see people through and through can be developed by everyone: it is enough to know about several points in the behavior of the interlocutor, which should be paid attention to. Practice "reading people" more often, get yourself into this habit, and after a while you will be impossible to deceive.
All people are different and everyone has their own habits and characteristics... Someone
goes over objects on the table, someone wrinkles their nose funny, shakes their legs,
touches the chin. These behaviors can indicate nervousness, distrust, and more. Or they may be a habit of this person, which has nothing to do with what is happening.
therefore it is important to determine which behaviors are the norm for a particular person... And then pay attention to any deviations from the norm, to minor changes in the behavior and facial expressions of the interlocutor. The very essence lies in them.
Observe and Compare
To complete the picture, it is useful to observe the interlocutor from the side: how he
behaves before communicating with you, how he communicates with other people, what the language speaks
his body. During a conversation with you, he will behave a little differently, he will
trying to impress. Comparing what you see, you get much
more information about the person. After the meeting, do not rush to leave either - see if his mood and behavior have changed.
Always adjust for context
All people in society unconsciously play roles and adjust a little to each other, mirror the gestures of people they like or those they want to impress. Adjust for the context of the person you are trying to read, because in different circles there may be different rules. For example, in some countries the gaze is averted because it is the custom to express respect, and not because of the feeling of awkwardness.
Wrinkles reflect a person's character. If a person frowns and wrinkles his mouth for years, it will be noticeable. Facial expressions can tell a lot.
- When a person wants to be understood and convincing, he raises his eyebrows, wrinkling his forehead. People who have pronounced longitudinal wrinkles on the forehead, all their lives trying to establish contact with others and want to be heard.
- When you are attractive to the interlocutor, his facial muscles relax, his head tilts a little to one side, blood rushes to his lips, making them a little plump and brighter. If meeting you is unpleasant for him, his face will be slightly tense.
- If you see a smile on a person's face, but at the same time, wrinkles do not form in the corners of his eyes, then he smiles at you insincerely - this is a fake smile. Such a smile can also indicate that the interlocutor feels uncomfortable.
- Squinted eyes during a conversation (as if a person is trying to make out something small) indicate that he is trying to understand, penetrate, concentrate and, probably, feels out of place. If a person squints at you directly in the eyes, then this signals his mistrust and ill will.
- Dilated pupils speak of strong sensations, sympathy, excitement, interest. When a person quickly goes over the thoughts in his head, frantically looking for a solution, his eyes dart around.
- If the person avoids direct eye contact or, on the contrary, looks too intently into your eyes, there is a high probability that they are not telling the truth.
Most often, when a person remembers something, his pupils are directed either upward or to the left and up. But while composing and inventing on the go, a person looks to the right and up.
Team behavior
In collectives, people are grouped according to the similarity of views or characters.Observe your interlocutor, find out with whom he prefers to spend time. How he behaves with people, whether he worries about the convenience of those around him or unceremoniously interferes with them and does not even notice it, will say a lot.
- A chatty and wordy person is usually proud and touchy.
- Quiet speech and avoidance of public statements are inherent in people who are prone to self-criticism, assiduous and insecure.
- If the interlocutor constantly interrupts, hears only himself - he is pessimistic, distrustful and selfish.
- If a person speaks little, this does not always indicate his stiffness. Perhaps this is a sign of success: such people talk less and do more.
We feel that he should not be trusted: having sufficient experience in observing people, we subconsciously and very quickly compare the smallest details of behavior and recreate a complete picture. This is how intuition works. It can and should be developed, and you should also listen to it more often. Of course, sometimes we can make mistakes in our intuitive assessments, but gradually, with practice and experience, we will make fewer and fewer such mistakes.
Can a person, if desired, hide his true intentions, feelings and fears? Or, knowing the subtleties of behavior, facial expressions and gestures, can you see through absolutely any person, even the most cunning and skillful actor? How do you think?