El Moon is a designer artist, a writer, controlling the textile company Bulan Project. El Luna lives in San Francisco, performs around the world, sharing the tips from the book written by her "Between and I want to".
Complexity of presentation
3 of 5. Suitable for students.
The target audience
Those who want to change a career who are looking for a calling in life and want to change her for the better.
This bright, colorful, inspirational book directs the search for a vocation, which is located at the crossroads between "you need" and "want." "It is necessary" - this must be the expectations of others, "I want" - a cherished dream. The book describes the stories of different people who have achieved the exercise of desires already in the elderly. In the book you will find answers to questions, how to find time and finance on "I want" and the desired life, how to throw false "need" from life, how to find out your true desires. We are very different, but combined with one pain: We do not know how to use 100% abilities.
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"I want" different from "necessary" by what is our essence, we are real. All that inevitably and inexplicably comes from the depths of the soul, does not agree to compromises, does not want to meet someone else's ideals, reveals the inner potential - this is the best choice that can only make a human soul.
10 ways to help in finding the destination:
- "We must often steal freedom and requires complete submission to social norms and rules. But some of them go genetically or laid down, so it is important to maintain some of them, and from some refusing to "want".
- There is an empty chair technique that came from gestalt therapy in the middle of the twentieth century. Sitting on two chairs alternately for 15 minutes, you need to talk with yourself from the face "I need" and from the face "I want." It is impossible to hold emotions in this monologue, you can scream, indignant, be angry. When you start the conversation, sitting on the second chair, you can understand what "you need" should be thrown away, but to what to listen.
- The best memories of themselves go from childhood. If you can't answer the questions that you wanted to become what were in the company that you loved to do, you can ask parents or knowing you well. Made during a conversation notes will help determine the future purpose.
- Write everything pleasant than you would like to master: learn to sing, dance, etc. Every month we develop a new occupation and look for yourself in it.
- Remember the most frequent things that you do, putting out something important for later.
- Allow yourself the most brave fantasies. Answer yourself honestly: if you have the opportunity, anyone would you like to be in life? The more honest we admit in desires, the more consciously spend time.
- Imagine that it will be written in your two imaginary necrologists if you choose two different life paths: available and desired.
- Leave some time on the memories of the true pleasures, from which butterflies flute in the stomach.
- It is not always possible to see the connection between completely different interests, but they all make you exactly. Drawing up every month to the development of some kind of skill, you can subsequently see that these interests mutually engraving each other.
- It should be searted through the allocation of 10 minutes to small, but important changes. "Want" is always an action.
Van Gogh was no wonder once said: "I will have my paintings, and then I draw my dream."
Best quotation
"I noticed that everything comes to us at the right time. Not earlier. And not later. "
What teaches the book
To come to the life of the dream maybe not sacrificing the comfort of yourself and families.
Already today you can start acting if it seems to you that it came to it. Disconnection between everyday life and dreams only says that you need to carefully listen to yourself and seek interference.
Any choice implies a meeting with fear: whether they will not be coordinated by loved ones if you will not be alone. Only you are able to decide what fear remain your satellites, and what is not a place in a new life.
It is impossible to get the purpose fully formed. For its manifestation, it is necessary to write about him every day.
A bright book that will inspire you to find your true calling and follow him.
Which of us did not ask the question: "How can I find my true vocation?" El Moon characterizes it as an intersection between "it is necessary" and "I want." "It is necessary" - this is what we have to do, as it seems to us, or that others expect from us. "I want" - what we dream in the depths of the soul.
Own way inspired the author to writing a manifesto about the difference between "need" and "Want", which 5 million Twitter users shared and who read hundreds of thousands of people. "I wanted to send it to all my employees," wrote one supervisor who read the article - but I realized that a third of them would leave if they read it. But you know what? If they do not want to work here, they need to quit - so I sent this article. "
Now the ideas of El about the difference between "need" and "want" are presented in this inspirational bright book, which is useful to the student, and the artist, and anyone who is looking for his calling and wants to change his life for the better.
From the author
These pages are written in support of your inner voice, which you can give this world something special. They are designed to remind: although you do not know where this road will lead, very many have passed on it. They allow you to forget all that we need do to remember that you want to do.
For whom this book
For anyone who wants to change their career and life, find your true vocation and courage to follow him.
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Pages: 176
The year of publishing: 2017
Language: Russian
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What I love, I think it is already clear. But many of my friends say that they are somehow lacking for reading. What happens and so. And if despite your books addiction, you want to get a dose of inspiration and practical advice on the way to a dream, without losing time on the study of a plurality of pages, you are perfect for the book "Between I want and want" El Moon.
"Between I need and want" -
very short and at the same time a very capacious book about the most important and difficult path, the path to yourself. From reading the book you will not only be briefly outlined instructions for working on yourself, and also aesthetic pleasure.
The author of the book El Luna is also an artist, designer. So all the pictures below are art of El from the book. In them, the words come to life, the brightness of the doubts of everyone that all this is true. Happiness is and it is in your great abilities. Show them!
Do you have doubts and fears? Perfectly. They have everyone. In any case, I did not meet people without them. So it's interesting. There is something to work on, and appreciate all your transformations is better.
What prevents from being given to this stream? The presence of two, and not one way.
« We need - This is the opinion of others about how we live "
You often tell you what is better for you? Many and many around. Who is a word, who is a look, who from the magazine, and who and from the screen. Such a noise, and inexpressive for some reason. And sometimes the rustle stars rustle through it, as Zeland calls him. And it's talking about some kind Want- Our desires, beliefs, hobbies, this is what we believe and what our soul is striving for, this is who we really are.
I want so beautiful. And why should we generally need it?
And every one must have its own story. And if you want to get rid of it, you have given time.
How to stop living according to the principle?
Take a sheet of paper and make up a list of all your own. Excess each phrase or a big sentence, where are they from and whether you can easily make decisions simply shut out it from this list and not have more deal with him. If someone has already been able to have time to put roots, El Moon offers a "empty chair" method. By the way, and advised him.
Briefly is a conversation with yourself. You put two chairs, sitting on one, you imagine your want, on the second - it is necessary. You can take a hat for one role, make a conversation on camera, talk with different intonations. If only it would be better to get to the cause of the appearance, it is necessary to let him go.
I personally did not use this method yet. I do not see a special need for myself. At this stage of life, I am a little (quite a bit) relaxed: "I'm on maternity leave, so I want to write in a blog, I don't want to - do not write."
But there is another very interesting question.
What if I don't know what I want to do?
Remember children's hobbies, write two necrologists, learn something new, look for repeating motives, ask questions from the picture ⇓
Stay yourself, look all the answers in you.
Do you know your want? Congratulations!
True, and with such defolds, we have questions. El meadow says only 4:
Now start. Act. Start with a small step, but start.
. Do not need to be a tricky and rushing into the unknown. Although someone will come true.
The most faithful I want to be realized slowly, thoughtfully and quietly.
Come back to yourself. Be in a stream. Purpose is the way. On it many times there will be an intersection. Trust yourself and your inner voice. So it will be easier :)
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We are different. Thirty-year women. Twenty-year-old men. Students. Artists. Musicians pretending to lawyers. Poets who love to drive bus. People who understand that the work has started in a dead end, and people grateful to fate that there is at least some job. We are different. But we have a common pain. We do not use your abilities to truly.
About how to find your way and understand yourself, El Moon wrote once in a blog. And after a couple of weeks, more than 5 million people shared this text. "Throw everything you do, and read this text," people shared with such messages. And now the book "Between it is necessary and I want."
So throw everything. And read.
Surprisingly beautiful
It is so beautiful book that it makes no sense to describe it with words. See.
Tasty and bright book inspiration in the cover with caramel letters. Seriously, when I first saw the cover - I wanted to lick. Fragrant (all new books smell like that, and books with dreams - especially!) And awesome beautiful. Even if you are a fan of e-books - this you exactly want in paper.
What inside? Delicious stories. Useful exercises. And sea. Sea inspiration on each page.
El Moon, designer and book author, worked in IDEO and startups, including Mailbox, Medium and Uber. But he decided - and changed everything. Now it controls the textile company Bulan Project connecting designers with masters of painting on Baliki.
She got whatever. And tells how you can do.
Between it and I want to want
There are two ways in life: "I need" and I want. From the very birth, we are told that you have to do. "It is necessary" - these are the opinions of others about how we live. These are all the expectations that others lay on us. Sometimes these "need" are small: "You need to listen to this song!" In other cases, "it is necessary" - other people's thoughts that make us live in a different way.
Taking "necessary", we choose life for someone or something else than we ourselves.
We come to the intersection "need" and "I want" again and again. And every day choose, - Illustration from the book.
"Want" - this is who we are actually, what we believe and what we are doing with you here. "I want" appears when we stop fitting someone else's ideals and go to meet our own. Only in this case we reveal the potential.
"I want" is the best choice that we can do in life.
What do you now?
The most frequent choice between "need" and "I want" we do in relation to work. Or not work? .. Here, for example, a cosmonaut is a job or a calling? Let's deal with.
Writer Thomas Eliot worked in a bank. Kurt Vonnegut sold cars. One of the greatest composers of modern times Philip Glass began to earn on his calling only in 41 years. The premieres of his works took place in the Metropolitan Opera, and he continued to work by the plumber.
Any work deserves respect. If you work only in order to pay bills, it is not bad. And what you want to find your calling does not mean that you need to leave. There is no contradiction here.
But it is important to understand that you now Do you do? Is it a job or calling?
Dream game
Once I came to the party, where guests were offered to record the most bold and crazy dreams on cards. I listened to how people share their audacious dreams. My were dull and boring and did not completely worry me. Come home, I decided to seriously take them.
I began to pay close attention to my desires and gusts - big and small. Intuition enhanced and allowed to hear a quiet inner voice that asked something crazy, stupid, dirty, quiet. The more I fed him, the louder he spoke.
Now the cards with dreams hung even in the bathroom and above the kitchen sink. Desires fell out of the pockets of the coat and fell into the bags of other people. It turns out that frankly we recognize yourself in desires, the more consciously spend your time.
Enter the same. Allow yourself to tell yourself (yes yes) what your heart wants.
Purpose
We cannot prove the existence of the destination. But we know that it exists, because, approaching him, we feel it with a heart.
"When we connect to the vocation, we get to another space," said the artist Keith Haring, - we connect with the phenomena of the universal scale, which are completely outside our ego and self. This is the most important thing. "
It is possible to believe that your destination will appear fully formed, are akin to faith that you can write a book, just wanting this and thinking about it. But if you do one small thing every day - take a pen, write a paragraph of text, draw up a list of words, - then your destination will manifest.
And what in the end?
That very sense of life. And wealth, if you need it. The richest people in the world fill their days and nights invaluable gifts of life:
Everything comes to us at the right time. Not earlier. And no later. Imagine that this letter and the story about the book turned out to be in front of you, because you wanted to read them. And because you have long seen this life crossroads and are ready for travel.
Back in book
- How to find out what you really want
- Four questions that everyone should ask yourself
- How to find time and money on "Want", when five children and mortgage
- Why the destination eludes us
- Where to take money on that life that you like
- How to get rid of false "need"
- How to deal with fears from the series "I have 30-40-90 years old ..."
- Where to find time on what you love
- How to become truly happy ... and much more.
Your life belongs to you. But only if you yourself at the helm. Go along the way "I want" every day. Ten minutes can be found everywhere. Ten minutes while the kettle boils, - go ahead! Ten minutes in traffic jam - ahead!
What do you choose? Need? Want?
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